After much discussion with a very dear friend who is fascinated with personality typing, I took the Color Test and Enneagram Test.
My Color Code Results:
Reds are motivated by Power. They seek productivity and need to look good to others. Simply stated, reds want their own way. They like to be in the driver's seat and willingly pay the price to be in a leadership role. reds value whatever gets them ahead in life, whether it be in their careers, school endeavors, or personal life. What reds value, they get done. They are often workaholics. They will, however, resist doing anything that doesn't interest them.
Reds like to be right. They value approval
from others for their intelligence and practical approach to life, and
want to be respected for it. Reds are confident, proactive, and visionary; and but can also be arrogant, selfish, and insensitive. When you deal with a RED, be precise, factual, direct, AND show no fear!
My Enneagram Results:
Type 7, the Enthusiast:
Sevens are extroverted, optimistic, versatile, and
spontaneous. Playful, high-spirited, and practical, they
can also misapply their many talents, becoming over-
extended, scattered, and undisciplined. They constantly
seek new and exciting experiences, but can become
distracted and exhausted by staying on the go. They
typically have problems with impatience and impulsiveness.
At their Best: they focus their talents on worthwhile
goals, becoming appreciative, joyous, and satisfied.
Sevens are enthusiastic about almost everything that catches their
attention. They approach life with curiosity, optimism, and a sense of
adventure, like “kids in a candy store” who look at the world in
wide-eyed, rapt anticipation of all the good things they are about to
experience. They are bold and vivacious, pursuing what they want in life
with a cheerful determination. They have a quality best described by
the Yiddish word “chutzpah”—a kind of brash “nerviness.”
Although Sevens are in the Thinking Center, this is
not immediately apparent because they tend to be extremely practical
and engaged in a multitude of projects at any given time. Their thinking
is anticipatory: they foresee events and generate ideas “on the
fly,” favoring activities that stimulate their minds—which in turn
generate more things to do and think about. Sevens are not necessarily
intellectual or studious by any standard definition, although they are
often intelligent and can be widely read and highly verbal. Their minds
move rapidly from one idea to the next, making Sevens gifted at
brainstorming and synthesizing information. Sevens are exhilarated by
the rush of ideas and by the pleasure of being spontaneous, preferring
broad overviews and the excitement of the initial stages of the creative
process to probing a single topic in depth.
Sevens are frequently endowed with quick, agile
minds, and can be exceptionally fast learners. This is true both of
their ability to absorb information (language, facts, and procedures)
and their ability to learn new manual skills—they tend to have excellent
mind-body coordination, and manual dexterity (typewriting, piano
playing, tennis). All of this can combine to make a Seven into the
quintessential "Renaissance person."
Ironically, Sevens' wide-ranging curiosity and
ability to learn quickly can also create problems for them. Because they
are able to pick up many different skills with relative ease, it
becomes more difficult for them to decide what to do with themselves. As
a result, they also do not always value their abilities as they would
if they had to struggle to gain them. When Sevens are more balanced
however, their versatility, curiosity, and ability to learn can lead
them to extraordinary achievement.
The root of their problem is common to all of the
types of the Thinking Center: they are out of touch with the inner
guidance and support of their Essential nature. As with Fives and Sixes,
this creates a deep anxiety in Sevens. They do not feel that they know
what to do or how to make choices that will be beneficial to themselves
and others. Sevens cope with this anxiety in two ways. First, they try
to keep their minds busy all of the time. As long as Sevens can keep
their minds occupied, especially with projects and positive ideas for
the future, they can, to some extent, keep anxiety and negative feelings
out of conscious awareness. Likewise, since their thinking is
stimulated by activity, Sevens are compelled to stay on the go, moving
from one experience to the next, searching for more stimulation. This is
not to say that Sevens are "spinning their wheels." They generally
enjoy being practical and getting things done.
Sevens cope with the loss of Essential guidance by using the “trial
and error” method: they try everything to make sure they know what is
best. On a very deep level, Sevens do not feel that they can find what they really want in life.
They therefore tend to try everything—and ultimately may even resort to
anything as a substitute for what they are really looking for. (“If I
can’t have what will really satisfy me, I’ll enjoy myself anyway. I’ll
have all kinds of experiences—that way I will not feel bad about not
getting what I really want.”)
We can see this in action even in the most trivial
areas of their daily lives. Unable to decide whether he wants vanilla,
chocolate, or strawberry ice cream, a Seven will want all three
flavors—just to be sure that he does not miss out on the “right” choice.
Having two weeks for a vacation and a desire to visit Europe brings a
similar quandary. Which countries and cities to visit? Which sites to
see? The Seven’s way of dealing with this will be to cram as many
different countries, cities, and attractions into his vacation as
possible. While they are scrambling after exciting experiences, the real
object of their heart’s desire (their personal Rosebud, as it were) may
be so deeply buried in their unconscious that they are never really
aware of precisely what it is.
Furthermore, as Sevens speed up their pursuit of
whatever seems to offer freedom and satisfaction, they tend to make
worse choices, and they are less able to be satisfied because everything
is experienced indirectly, through the dense filter of their fast-paced
mental activity. The result is that Sevens end up anxious, frustrated,
and enraged, with fewer resources available to them physically,
emotionally, or financially. They may end up ruining their health, their
relationships, and their finances in their search for happiness.
On the positive side, however, Sevens are extremely optimistic
people—exuberant and upbeat. They are endowed with abundant vitality and
a desire to fully participate in their lives each day. They are
naturally cheerful and good humored, not taking themselves too
seriously, or anything else for that matter. As we have seen, the Basic
Desire of Sevens is to be satisfied, happy, and fulfilled, and when they
are balanced within themselves, their joy and enthusiasm for life
naturally affect everyone around them. They remind us of the pure
pleasure of existence—the greatest gift of all.
Basic Fear: Of being deprived and in pain
Basic Desire: To be satisfied and content—to have their needs fulfilled
Key Motivations: Want to maintain their freedom and happiness, to avoid
missing out on worthwhile experiences, to keep themselves excited and
occupied, to avoid and discharge pain.
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